The Honest Truth About Weight Loss For Women

women-weight-lossCan weight loss be fun, pleasurable, natural and even easy? Yes. BUT, before you can expect to be able to solve your weight problem, there are several pre requisites that must be met.

1) Get honest about yourself and weight control.

Accept the truth about yourself and weight control. To succeed with weight loss, first we must accept that we have been eating too much — and that to lose weight and keep it off, we’ll have to learn how to eat less for the rest of our lives. We need to accept the science of thermodynamics that defines weight gain, loss and control in calories. In order to solve our weight problem, we must find a way to eat less calorically and be happy with it. If we can, we can solve the weight problem for good.

2) You need to accept that you can’t get someone else to create the success. You must own the job of creating your weight-loss success.

Weight control is one of those things in life where you can’t get someone else to do it for you. It’s not like hiring someone to clean the house or give you a tummy tuck. It doesn’t matter how rich and powerful you are, or how poor and powerless. You can’t buy this success. But you can make it happen.

No one else can cause your success. You must cause it. No one else can do the work. You must do the work. You don’t need to be confident that you can do it, but you do need accept the job as your own, no one else’s.

3) Your health and weight control must be the top priority in your life. They must come before all other concerns.

To be successful, work can’t come first. Church can’t come first. School can’t come first. Family and friends can’t come first. What other people think can’t come first. When things interfere with what you need to do, everything else must take a backseat. They can be considered only after you’ve done what’s needed to succeed with your weight control and health goals.

This may seem extreme, especially for those who can control their weight easily. They think it should be easy for us, too. However, once a person has developed chronic weight control problems, there’s no solving it until it is made the top priority in your life.

Can you take these steps?

If something inside you says, “My work (or whatever) is really important. There’s no way that weight control will come first,” that’s what’s keeping you from being successful. If it says, “I really don’t eat too much. There’s no way I could eat less,” that’s what’s keeping you from being successful. If it says, “I need someone else to make it easier for me, someone to make me do what’s needed.” that’s what’s keeping you from being successful. Before you have a chance of winning at permanent weight loss, you need to confront these issues and change what you think.

What works for one person may not work for the next. When making changes, some people prefer to go all-in and change everything at the same time. But others prefer the longer, slower approach… making small changes, one at a time. Neither approach is better than the other, it’s just that people have different personalities and like to approach lifestyle changes differently.

woman-relaxing-with-cup-of-teaHere are some thoughts for those who prefer the longer, slower approach to adopt a healthy, real food based diet in 12 simple, easily manageable steps.  You can do one step per week, one every two weeks, or one per month… whichever suits you. Waiting until you get used to one change before making the next is a good idea.  Whatever you do, you should start seeing results right away, because each step can have a powerful effect.  When you’re done with this, you should have lost a significant amount of weight and improved your health, both physical and mental, in every way imaginable.

Remember… habit puts willpower on autopilot. Changes in lifestyle and behavior can be tough in the beginning, but become effortless when you turn them into a habit.  By mastering one small habit at a time, you will set yourself up for long-term success.

Here are 12 baby steps to optimal nutrition.

1. Eat More Protein to Boost Your Metabolism and Reduce Your Appetite, Making Future Changes Easier

Before we subtract, we add.

This first step will change your metabolism in a way that makes subsequent changes easier. First of all, protein actually boosts your metabolic rate… that is, how many calories you burn at rest. The studies show that high protein diets boost metabolism by 80 to 100 calories per day, compared to low protein diets.

Second of all, protein can reduce your appetite, making you automatically eat less of other calorie sources. In one study, eating protein at 30{1bdcf4295a84c1ed5359343b3cd19b497d4f21a197b56d809641a191f3f0a5b4} of calories caused an automatic reduction in calorie intake of 449 calories per day. The people lost 4.9 kg (11 lbs.) in 12 weeks, without intentionally restricting anything. Of course… adequate protein also has many other benefits, including increased muscle mass, stronger bones, lower blood pressure, to name a few.

Good protein sources include meat, poultry, fish, seafood, eggs and full-fat dairy products (if you can tolerate them). Some people like beans and legumes, which are absolutely fine if properly prepared.

You don’t really need to weigh or measure, but it may be a good idea to track your foods in the beginning to make sure you are getting enough — about 1.5-2.5 grams of protein per kilogram of bodyweight, or 0.7-1.1 grams per pound.  Eating more protein is the easiest, simplest and most delicious way to give your metabolism a nudge towards a lower body weight, reduced appetite and better health. It will also make the rest of the changes easier.

Bottom Line: Adding more protein to your diet will boost your metabolism and reduce your appetite, giving your metabolism a nudge and making subsequent changes much easier.

2. Start Eating a Healthy Breakfast, Preferably With Eggs

The second step involves changing one of your daily meals… breakfast.

Most people are eating cereal or something similar for breakfast, but that really is the worst thing you can eat at the start of the day.  Most breakfast cereals are loaded with refined carbs and sugar (even the healthy looking ones).

Eating this stuff for breakfast will spike your blood sugar, leading to a crash a few hours later… followed by cravings for another high-carb meal.  Instead, eat eggs for breakfast. Eggs are pretty much the perfect breakfast food… they’re high in protein, healthy fats and contain a ton of nutrients. There are a few studies showing that if you replace a grain-based breakfast (bagels) with eggs, it can help you lose fat.  Eggs are best served with vegetables or a fruit… but you can have quality bacon with them if you want.  If you can’t eat eggs for some reason, any high-protein, nutrient dense food will suffice.  There really is NO valid excuse not to eat a healthy breakfast. Once you get this into a routine, preparing an egg-based breakfast doesn’t take more than 5-10 minutes, at most. Just set your alarm a bit earlier.  That being said, there is no need to eat breakfast in the morning if you don’t feel like it, just make sure that your first meal of the day is a healthy one.

Bottom Line: Eating a healthy, nutrient-dense breakfast with protein and healthy fats is the best way to start the day.

3. Replace Crappy Fats and Oils With Good Fats and Oilsvegetable-oil-in-a-plastic-bottle

Simply replacing unhealthy fats and oils with healthier ones can have a major impact on your health down the line. 

Most people are eating a lot of seriously unhealthy fats… including trans fats and refined vegetable oilsAlthough trans-fat consumption has gone down in the past few years and decades, it is still way too high. To avoid trans fats, make sure you read the label on anything you eat. If it says “hydrogenated” or “partially hydrogenated” anywhere on the label, avoid it. Refined vegetable oils are also problematic. They have a different composition than other more natural fats, being unnaturally high in Omega-6 fatty acids. This includes corn oil, soybean oil, cottonseed oil and several others. Without getting into the details (you can read about them here), consuming vegetable oils may be leading to increased inflammation and oxidative damage in the body, potentially raising your risk of heart disease and cancer. Instead of these nasty fats and oils, choose fats that are mostly saturated and/or monounsaturated. Grass-fed butter, coconut oil, olive oil, avocado oil and others. Whole nuts are an excellent source of fat as well.

Bottom Line: The relatively simple act of replacing trans fats and high Omega-6 vegetable oils with healthy, traditional fats should lead to some pretty impressive health benefits and make your body function better.

4. Remove Sugar-Sweetened Beverages and Fruit Juices From Your Diet

Sugar is bad news… but sugar consumed in a liquid form is even worse.

Studies show that the brain doesn’t “register” liquid sugar calories in the same way as it does calories from other foods.

So you might drink several hundred calories of soda in one day (not uncommon), but your brain doesn’t take them into account when it is trying to control your energy balance. If you were to add a whole food to your diet, you would automatically eat less of other foods instead. In other words, your brain would “compensate” for those added calories. That doesn’t happen with liquid sugar calories. Your brain doesn’t compensate for them, so you end up taking in more than you need. One study shows that consuming a single serving of sugar-sweetened beverages per day is linked to a 60{1bdcf4295a84c1ed5359343b3cd19b497d4f21a197b56d809641a191f3f0a5b4} increased risk of obesity in children. Many other studies support this… sugar-sweetened beverages may be the most fattening aspect of the modern diet. Keep in mind that fruit juice is just as bad. It contains the same amount of sugar as a sugary soft drink.

Bottom Line: Sugar may be the single worst ingredient in the modern diet, but consuming it in a liquid form is even worse.

5. Start Exercising… Find Something That You Enjoy and Can Stick to

woman-running-with-headphones Exercise is one of the most important things you can do for both physical and mental health, as well as disease prevention.

On its own, it is unlikely to lead to significant weight loss. However… it can help improve your body composition. You may not be losing weight, but you may be losing some fat and gaining a bit of muscle instead. Exercise leads to so many benefits that it is beyond the scope of this article to list all of them… but let’s just say that exercise is highly protective against pretty much any chronic, Western disease.

It is also incredibly beneficial for mood, well-being and avoiding depression, which is a very common problem today. When it comes to exercise, what you do exactly is not that important. What IS important is finding something that you enjoy doing and can stick to in the long run. Although a combination of cardiovascular exercise and some type of resistance training may be the best, something as simple as walking also has incredibly powerful health benefits. If you’ve already done steps 1-4, the function of your hormones should have improved and your energy levels increased, so starting an exercise program may not be that hard. Work your way up to doing some sort of exercise at least 3 times per week.  

Bottom Line: Exercise is just as important as nutrition when it comes to optimal health. It can improve both physical and mental health, while being highly protective against most modern, chronic diseases.

6. Replace Sugar, Refined Carbs and Modern Wheat With Other Healthier Foods

Time to get rid of the “bad” carbs. Sugar and refined carbs are some of the unhealthiest aspects of the modern diet. They’re low in nutrients and fiber and contribute to overeating, which brings with it a plethora of metabolic problems and diseases. Wheat is in a league of its own. Modern dwarf wheat, introduced around 1960, is low in nutrients compared to older varieties of wheat and is much worse for celiac patients and gluten sensitive individuals than older types of wheat. Instead of the “bad” carbs, choose healthier carb sources instead. Vegetables, fruits, potatoes, sweet potatoes, healthier grains like rice, oats and quinoa, even legumes if you can tolerate them. For now, let this suffice and don’t restrict total carb intake (not until step #8). Whatever you do, just get rid of the sugar and processed carbs from your diet. Eat real food instead.

Bottom Line: Sugar and refined carbs are some of the most damaging aspects of the modern diet. It’s time to get rid of them and eat healthier carbs instead.

7. Start Eating Meat or Fish and Plenty of Vegetables For Dinner

Now it’s time to transform another one of your daily meals… dinner.

Replace whatever it is that you’re eating with a meal based on either meat or fish, along with plenty of nutritious vegetables. Dinner is the easiest meal to fit in plenty of veggies. If you enjoy starches (like potatoes or rice) with dinner, then feel free to eat those too. Definitely try to eat fatty fish at least 1-2 times per week for all the super healthy Omega-3s. If you can’t or won’t eat fatty fish, then supplement with fish oil.

Bottom Line: Start eating a healthy dinner based on meat or fish, with plenty of vegetables. Try to eat fatty fish at least 1-2 times per week.

8. Match Carb Intake to Your Metabolic Health and Activity Levels

Carbs are a highly controversial nutrient.female-doctor-holding-two-apples

Some think the biggest part of our diet should be coming from carbs, while others think they are downright toxic. As with most things, the truth is somewhere in between and depends greatly on the individual. The optimal carb intake for any one individual depends on many factors… including metabolic health, activity levels, food culture and personal preference. Whereas someone who is lean, healthy and lifts weights 5 times a week may function well eating a lot of carbs, someone who is overweight and doesn’t exercise much will probably do better with a low-carb diet. Although there is no scientific paper that explains exactly how to match carbohydrate intake to individual needs, these guidelines are effective: 100-150 grams: People who are lean, healthy and physically active (some people may need even more than this). 50-100 grams: People who are overweight and/or don’t exercise much. 20-50 grams: People who have a lot of weight to lose, or have metabolic problems like type 2 diabetes. If weight loss is your goal, you can slowly add back in healthier carb sources when you reach your ideal weight.

Bottom Line: Some people function best eating plenty of carbohydrates. For others, low-carb diets have lifesaving benefits. It’s important to match carbohydrate intake to your individual needs and preferences.

9. Take Care of Your Lifestyle… Emphasizing Adequate Sleep and Reduced Stress Levels

Often overlooked, sleep and stress levels can have a major effect on your health.

Studies show that not getting enough sleep is strongly linked to many serious diseases, including obesity. Short sleep duration may actually be one of the strongest risk factor for weight gain. It is linked to a 55{1bdcf4295a84c1ed5359343b3cd19b497d4f21a197b56d809641a191f3f0a5b4} increased risk of obesity in adults and 89{1bdcf4295a84c1ed5359343b3cd19b497d4f21a197b56d809641a191f3f0a5b4} in children. There are many ways to improve sleep… such as sleeping in a completely dark room, avoiding caffeine in the afternoon and evening, as well as maintaining a consistent sleep schedule. Another major lifestyle factor is chronic stress. Excess stress raises your levels of the hormone cortisol, which can make you gain a lot of fat in the abdominal cavity and raise your risk of all sorts of health problems down the line. Unfortunately, stress can be hard to deal with. Many of us are overwhelmed with various duties and worries. Meditation can help with this, but if you are severely stressed all the time and can’t find a way to change it on your own, then it may be a good idea to seek professional help.

Bottom Line: Lifestyle factors like getting adequate sleep and avoiding chronic stress are incredibly important for optimal health, but often overlooked.

10. Start Eating Healthy Lunches and Snacks… Now Each of Your Daily Meals Should be Healthy and Nutritious

Now that you’ve already taken care of breakfast and dinner, it’s time to move on to lunches and

These meals tend to be the most problematic for a lot of people, because they are often eaten away from home. A good way to always ensure you can eat something healthy for lunch is to cook an excessive amount at dinner, so you can eat leftovers for lunch the next day. But today, because the world is more health conscious than ever before, “fast food” places that serve healthy food have started appearing all over the place. It might be a good idea to write down a list of places that serve healthier foods, so you always have some options on hand if you find yourself hungry away from home. Snacks are pretty easy… a piece of fruit and a handful of nuts works well. A few hard boiled eggs, a bag of baby carrots… all of these are easily portable. Chances are that you won’t even need snacks at this point, since avoiding sugar and processed carbs tends to reduce hunger and lead to stable energy levels.

Bottom Line: It’s time to start eating healthy lunches and snacks every day. Now each of your meals should be healthy and nutritious. It can help to plan ahead and have a list of “fast food” places that serve healthy foods.

11. Cut Out All Processed Foods and Start Focusing on Quality

Now it’s time to go completely real food based.

You should already be 90{1bdcf4295a84c1ed5359343b3cd19b497d4f21a197b56d809641a191f3f0a5b4} there, but if you’ve been hanging on to anything that you think may be doing you harm, now is the time to get rid of it. Clear out your pantry… throw away all soda, bread, cereals, flour, sugars, pastries and processed foods. Start focusing on quality ingredients… look for quality sources of animal foods, choose grass-fed if you can. Eat quality produce and try to avoid any food with artificial ingredients. Remember… real food doesn’t need an ingredients list, because real food IS the ingredient.

Bottom Line: It’s time to clear your house of all unhealthy, artificial stuff. Start focusing on quality, unprocessed foods at every meal. Look for the healthiest sources of plants and animals.

12. Commit to a Lifetime of Improvement

The final step is a lifelong endeavor. Turn health and nutrition into a hobby.

Subscribe to some blogs and try to read a few health related books per year. Stay health conscious for the rest of your life and you will live longer, look better and avoid most of the chronic diseases that people suffer from in old age.